“To err is human”. No one in this world is perfect and everybody has done mistakes and those who claim that they never make mistakes are those who never tried anything. You live in that state of affairs and you learn from it.
There are many kinds of regrets, some of them are totally illusionistic and have no connection with the present or past but people hold them, think of them and cry over them that are totally silly. Some regrets are connected with some desires, wants and wishes which are left behind unachieved.
This may give serious sort of sadness and put people in problem. For all of this, what you need to learn from life is that nothing in it is certain so it is totally useless to be worried about the things you have no control on.
The quick tips to avoid regret
Let us discuss some points which can help us to make out of the regrets
The Principle: This is the simple rule. Follow this very easy principle to avoid things which are reason of a continuous depression on your mind. Try not to think too much especially when you are alone. Do some constructive work then. Empty mind is a place when evil love to stay. Whenever you are alone, try not to think anything at all.
Finding Facts: Instead try finding out the positive aspect of everything present in your surroundings. This will help you to be happy and forgetting what you usually regrets about. It is nothing so serious if you made anything happen in the past.
This era is of science and technology, so fast that nobody has time to think of what you have done in your past time, but only you. So why don’t you just throw the worries away and step up to conquer what the current time is ready to give you.
Swap your mistakes: Be ready to swap your mistakes with the triumph you have achieved. Once you brace yourself for the challenges life may have for you will help you to overlook your compunctions. The past is over, forget it. Life is too short to stick to the contrition. Forge ahead and avail the fair shake. Maybe this time you don’t want to say no to the destiny. The best thing is that you cannot change the past physically but you can amend it by learning from it.
The Golden Rule: One golden rule, never listen and believe anything other says about you. People are good critics when talking about others but very good at praising themselves. No matter if you don’t have good past, let it go and start working on your future better. Good luck ☺